Look At It Another Way (2)

Yesterday I counselled a dear friend (many of our therapy clients become close friends over time) who was making herself sick with anger because her ex-husband was claiming child-support from her – now that their 12 year-old son had moved in with him. What galled Jenny (not her real name) most was that, during all [...]

Look At It Another Way (1)

Two nights ago I was doing some phone counseling with a friend (I’ll call him Phil) from Canada. We’ve being having chats across the Pacific for the past six years now, even though we have never met. The particular issue he was concerned about this time was to do with his mother. They’ve had a [...]